Dating sucks. Well, it CAN. Depending on who you are, what you're doing and have done, and what you're reading .. game twitter .. ha!

If you're going thru a slump rn, or even if ever, READ ON (if you're a king, well .. haha)

Tbh what I'm gonna say you must have heard fifty million times, including YOU talking to YOU. That's the worse, and it stings.

"You're too fat, you're out of shape, you're not jacked enough, not fit enough .."

Something like that?

"You're not rich enough, cant take her to all the fancy places .. cant ballout, cant do bottle service and print your name on the bigscreens while your walkout music plays .. "

Or this one?

Or you thought deeper, and attacked yourself more viciously and took extreme self ownership.

You're shy. Or too autistic (njk I know people who have this so I'm not even pointing fingers or laughing)

All in all you just dont have enough social skills.

Or let's be honest you're too SHORT. (Women always fuck the Tall guys, we all know this. And hey, I'm not the tallest ever, I got over this one REAL quick tho, read on why ..)

What did I forget? Oh, you dont have enough Experience, havent been around, maybe you havent even gotten your first date, kiss, or lay, or something went wrong, dk -- it can HAPPEN. No biggie.

Or lets be honest she dates only [fill in race] haha had to go there! I mean you know its true..

All of the above. Summarized. It's just Not ENOUGH. Right? Something like that?

I've believed all of the above, and to a degree, I still do. Not gonna lie. To a degree. That's the damn clincher. I stopped being all betacuck and blackpill (that's BP right?) anyways, I stopped focusing on the glass half empty.

And Took a Look at the Glass Half FULL.

The reason why — coming full circle right now — you're dating sucks is not one the obvious reasons stated.

In fact. It's EVEN MORE Obvious!

And this is gonna land like a Bomb:

You're not yourself.

You got to be FRIKKK Kidding me, Fury — I read so far, just to get THAT?!

Well it's true. Well It's about being (mb another cliché for ya) your BEST Self. I like to see it as your FULL self, fully tapped into all your latent capabilities, charm and wit, and explosive natural sexuality that you have been given by God. It's right there.

Let's take a look at our boy @nielsKNK — Just READ his bio. It's so terse, and simple, yet out of this world. But fully him. Fully Niels.

Artist, writer, erotic hypnotherapist. That's who he is!? I bet he took a damn long time perfecting that Elevator pitch. But guess what. It surely (must have haha) gotten his dick wet.

But look at that little triplet. Artist. Writer. Erotic. Hypno. Therapist. That's not me. Never will be (even tho I "see" myself as a writer). Not an artist. Not a hypnotist, much less erotic. And you will never be these things (well you can be if you want, by all means go ahead).

But that is EXACTLY the Point. That's him. An

d that WORKED (and works, I'm on the know-how of his life hehe), For HIM. That's the exact right damn key right there. There are a unique set of components in every guy, combined with the fundementals, and mixed with creativity that makes him into the ultimate Dating KING.

That's your unique throne. Thats you. Nobody can be that, nobody can take that throne, that's your birthright.

THATS what I meant you're not being yourself. Best self. FULL SELF. Kingly self.

You were trying to tape over your unique self with all kinds of alpha bullshit.

If you dont know by now, we're talking about Authenticity. Less is more to be honest. And it's about fleshing out your good sides, and working out the bad sides of yourself, working on the fundementals. And then adding what's uniquely yours —

— if you take a peak inside Dating King you will find Hypnotic techniques (which is well not Entirely New if you're fully into Game) but Niels added what was Uniquely His Style and he put it in there. It's quite meta, tbh.

But that's what all the Best Gamers do. Dont they? They are Most themselves. Go down your list of favorite Twitter Game accs, who are ALSO Highly succesful. You know them, I know them. They are UNIQUE ASF. But they have their fundementals on LOCK.

So finally we're gonna talk about Creativity. Game is a game of inches (much less football). You always need an angle, and gamers always look for that creative edge, always reading up on eachother. Sharpening their sword (no dirty puns here). One guy even printed that shit out

Yeah this stuff, given what we've seen on the "sphere" is breath of fresh air. Thats why gamers like it. Dating King, Sex Magician is just that. A Full Playbook running from dates, all the way to sex. But so much more. Indepth stuff. On sexuality and hypnosis and one of the best takes on frame, and relationships, which hardly ever gets mentioned.

Nuanced, from a guy who's been in the trenches, very evident in his writing.

But tbh it's noteworthy: He's not jaded by dating and women. And it shows. We here, as men, love women, and that's what dating is all about and should be about.

Dating is part of ourselves. Our FULL Self. Give yourself the chance.

And Invest in yourself:

Unveil the Dating King and Sex Magician Within!

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